AutonomyBoy's Profile
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City: Providence
State/Province: RI
Country: US
Age:
28
Height:
6' 4"
Weight:
225 lbs.
Hair Color:
Dark Brown
Eye Color:
Brown
Body Type:
Average
Ethnicity:
White
Occupation:
bundle of joy
myInterests
Interests/Hobbies
pop, teen novels, porn, vegetarian cookery, david hemmings
Music I Like:
x, the au pairs, the knife, melanie, lubos fiser
Films I Like:
if, chinatown, the crying game, underground, short cuts, young adam, morvern callar, jude
Literature I Like:
i like jude the obscure, the driver's seat, the novels of evelyn waugh, the uses of enchantment by heidi julavits, and the straight road to kylie, among others.
TV Shows I Like:
twin peaks, the avengers, the jeffersons, king of the hill, and not much else
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aboutAutonomyBoy
Autonomy Boy, you're so naive.
Writer/curator/media enthusiast.
Currently I'm working on a queer art magazine. We're getting together funding for it right now: check here to watch a promo video and find out how you can get prints and t-shirts and stuff.
I'm also working on some dirty photo projects. If you like to remove your clothing for kinda skeezy people with cameras and you're in southern New England lemme know!
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myBlog
Mixtapes for Hookers
Because who wants to listen to all that moaning?
- On Being A Male Sex Worker (9/1/10) [View | Hide]
- Ridin’ On A Heatwave (9/1/10) [View | Hide]
- Monday News (8/30/10) [View | Hide]
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The Telegraph on the fiftieth anniversary of Peeping Tom, one of my all-time favorite movies.
The Millions isn’t really into Goodreads, although for me it’s the one social network that actually tends to lead to interesting real-life conversations. (I guess you don’t have that problem when you’re already a famous book blogger, though…)
I just this week stumbled across high-class self-publishing site Blurb and so of course now I’m planning a book which will haunt me for months and then never happen.
Change.org continues to conflate prostitution with human trafficking. Also their math isn’t so good.
Articles about how iPads and Kindles are more environmentally friendly than printed books continue to make no sense to me. Also, shut up.
Finally, NPR recommended drinking angostura sours in honor of Mad Men. I have yet to see a single episode of that show, but bitters and egg whites sounds like a win-win cocktail for me.
[image: Still from Peeping Tom (Michael Powell, 1960)]
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- College Is A Horrible Place: A Ten-Year Retrospective (8/30/10) [View | Hide]
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Ten years ago I had a girlfriend. Her name was Monica and she was imaginary. Actually, she wasn’t imaginary, because I had a photo of her, affixed with blue Fun-tak to the wall of my freshman first-year dorm. My arm was around her. We were cute.
The day I moved into the dorm, some good-looking but frankly rather intimidating basketball players walked in and gave my wall the onceover. (I had immediately plastered my living space with photos and souvenirs from home and posters for albums that I didn’t actually own but meant to, because that is what people always did with dorm walls on TV.*) One of the jocks asked if the girl in the photo was my girlfriend and, without thinking, I said yes. “She’s hot,” he said. Which was true, although actually she was just one of my co-workers, one who was nice enough used to always make fun of me for not smoking weed or drinking and for being a vegetarian.
And yet suddenly she was my girlfriend. Once I had her, I talked about her constantly. “Monica got me this last Christmas,” I’d say, about whatever had my hometown boyfriend had given me for Christmas. “Monica listens to a lot of Cat Power.” “Monica’s family really likes me.” “Monica and I had sex in a church once.”
Lying was a lot of fun, although occasionally I would start contradicting myself, which grew troublesome. Also, because I didn’t know anything about girlfriends, some of my stories had holes in them. Like when I told my friend Sarah that Monica and I were both virgins when we met, which is why we didn’t think we had to use condoms. Horrified, Sarah asked if Monica was actually trying to get pregnant. Until that point I had never actually thought about condoms as a deterrent to pregnancy.
To avoid complications, Monica and I broke up over the Columbus Day break. This worked well, because no one was there to see it and also because it gave me a much-needed excuse to publicly sulk for a few weeks.
I needed to sulk because college was horrible. Really, every single thing was bad. My dorm was built in a 1960′s socialist worker-style, with a concrete waffle ceiling and dead ladybugs all over the windowsill. My roommate was an uptight swimmer who openly scorned me and who also joined an a capella group. The guy in the room next door listened to “Piano Man,” loudly, at least ten times a day, except when he got tired of that and then listened to “Alice’s Restaurant Massacre” ten times a day. My classes made me realize how subpar my high school education had been. The vegetarian offerings in the dining hall meant Froot Loops for breakfast and plain pasta for lunch every day. And I knew that I was never, ever going to get laid. And also everyone hated me.
The facebook did not help.
I don’t know if facebooks still exist in the age of Facebook, but they’re the books distributed at the beginning of orientation to incoming
- freshmen
first-years, with photos of every member of the class alongside info about where they’re from and what high school they went to. I had submitted a self-portrait in which I was walking down a city street and wearing headphones. (I was going through my “headphones are a valid accessory” phase.) It was not a very exciting photo but I did not care. I didn’t realize that every other person was sending in their official senior portrait, and didn’t realize that I was going to a college where a large chunk of the student body had gone to schools with names like Saint Andrew’s and Saint George’s and Miss Porter’s School. I stood out; whatever sadistic person assembles these hateful books cropped my photo so that my big head took up the entire frame. And anyone that knew Rhode Island–which was not many people, thankfully–knew that I went to an overcrowded public school in the poorer half of town.
Then on the second day, I barfed all over the front steps of the dorm.
I barfed because I had chosen to go to one of five colleges in the United States with a phys ed requirement. Some wealthy asshole in the early nineties bequeathed a swimming pool to the school, but on the asinine condition that every single student be able to pass a swimming test. (The college, incidentally, was on top of a hill above a shopping village that was located outside a suburb of Utica, New York. There was no actual water anywhere nearby.) But the college, for whatever reason, decided to accept the offer and incorporate this into a larger phys ed scheme. So on the second day of orientation, every
- freshman
first-year had to run a mile and a half and then do laps in the pool, or else they’d have to take remedial gym classes.
I ran over a mile in the ninety-something degree heat but didn’t make the mile and a half; in the last lap around the track I suddenly felt very sick. I stumbled away silently and sweatily, skipping out on the swimming test and searching in vain for some water. I asked numerous people where a bubbler was, forgetting in my despair that bubbler is a word that only people from Rhode Island use.**
And then I puked, mightily, on the front steps of the dorm, on the very day that the upperclassmen were moving back in. And then I was done for.
The year did not get better. My work study placed me in the financial aid office, where I sat in an attic full of bees and sorted paper for four hours a week. Unhappy working only four hours a week, I asked for more work and got transferred to the alumni relations office, where my job was to pack the boxes that get sent to the people that host those informational sessions that take place in hotel ballrooms. I worked under the supervision of an austere British woman who didn’t explain anything and then flipped out when things weren’t done exactly as she wanted. She fired me the day after Columbus Day, for not telling her that I wasn’t showing up during the school break.
Fired from my workstudy and broken up from my imaginary girlfriend and it was only October. I didn’t even know yet about the five consecutive months of snowstorms and darkness that plague central New York…
(*I started college the same year that Buffy did.)
(**I guess some people in Wisconsin say it too, but I didn’t know that then.)
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- I Got Something In The Mail Today… (8/27/10) [View | Hide]
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My copy of Coming & Crying arrived in the mail today. My story, “Sex Tape Thing,” is the first story I’ve ever had published in book form, so I’m reeeeeeally excited that it’s in the same book as stories by Stephen Elliott and Tao Lin and a whole bunch of people I know from the internet and also a whole bunch of people I’ve never read anything by before. I’m not even really sure that I like my story anymore, but, you know, that happens, maybe? I don’t know.
Anyway, if you happen to have gotten a copy in the mail, too, and read my bio and found your way here, um, hi.
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- Stereo Total Tonight (8/26/10) [View | Hide]
- Search Terms (8/24/10) [View | Hide]
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Today:
don corleone oksana
leg hair
kalomoira fake pics
hannah giles
playgirl 1976
Yesterday:
matthew lawrence naked
buying custom mixtapes
topless tuesdays tumblr
josh zuckerman naked
che guevara and debussy
Sunday:
“pierre asselin”
california boys
fuck craigslist
john fitzgerald kennedy, jr. nude
“conner habib” escort
Saturday:
store brand macaroni and cheese
me mr. miyagi and the phantom of the opera
death of hippie funeral
semen pillow
5ive, when the lights go out
hookers and hoos
Friday:
pierre asselin playgirl
michael naked
giant tattas
fuk porny
songs about hookers
Thursday:
classy introductions
civil war prostitutes
dorrough sex tape
joe rogan’s penis
matthew lawrence gay porn
Wednesday:
legends of wrestlemania
minnie temperley
hooker’s blog
porn-y gifs
is nick gilder gay
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- The Year I Worked At Pottery Barn… (8/24/10) [View | Hide]
- RIP $pread (8/24/10) [View | Hide]
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This November marks the one-year anniversary of the change in Rhode Island’s prostitution law, and I was thinking the other day about writing a story to see what change, if any, the law’s had on Ocean State sex workers. Obviously my first idea was to send the story to $pread, especially since I had just read the interview with editor Will Rockwell in Mother Jones last week.
So I e-mailed over my idea, but just hours later I found out, via Gchat status update, that $pread had just announced that it would be closing its doors after the next two issues come out.
I first encountered $pread when it was brand new, and someone was selling it at the Sex Workers Art Show merch table. “I’d like to write for this,” I said, as the person selling it stated at me like I had seven heads, or maybe didn’t understand what a sex worker actually was. In fairness, I was probably looking at him like he had seven heads, too, and also my social skills around strangers were kind of lacking at that point in my life. I was brand new to sex work and probably didn’t even have a story to tell, anyway.
But that was a long time ago. I’m very fond of $pread for a lot of reasons. Because I’m fond of magazines in general, of course, and because they were the first (and, okay, only) national magazine to publish me. And they were, I think, the first blog to put Mixtapes For Hookers in their blogroll. But also because it gave a voice to a community that, six years ago, was almost totally misunderstood and ignored. And it is such a large and disparate community. Through the magazine, and the $pread blog, and the people that put Lord knows how many hours into volunteering for it, I have met and e-mailed and talked to a group of people that are genuinely empowering.
The official release is here, and there’s also some parting words here from Audacia Ray, who was the magazine’s executive editor until 2008.
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- My Left Foot (8/20/10) [View | Hide]
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myFriends'Comments (74)
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Leogo87
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Comment left on: 6/10/10 10:16 PM
So your magazine was featured in Manhunt Daily. Awesome! Great publicity for you man. :)
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sachasacket
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Comment left on: 6/8/10 9:14 AM
yo. if you got a sec and you're interested - there's a free song of mine to download on my profile. xoxo
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Leogo87
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Comment left on: 6/4/10 2:16 AM
I bet! Hope all is going well. :D
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sissybutch
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Comment left on: 5/24/10 3:28 AM
yet, but...I'm proud for your mag! Distribute here @ Domy Books. The queens here need to become Queers.
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Leogo87
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Comment left on: 5/22/10 6:18 PM
Checked out your bulletins and your video. Looks like a good magazine. Good luck and I hope it does well! :D
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Leogo87
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Comment left on: 2/22/10 12:36 AM
attractive guy* :P Anyway, your photography sounds interesting too. I'm sure you work hard on it and that it shows. :)
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Leogo87
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Comment left on: 2/19/10 4:06 PM
Doing good. Good to find a nice attractive like you up northern way. :)
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Leogo87
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Comment left on: 2/19/10 1:02 PM
Thanks for accepting my add. :) How are you today?
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paimutan
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Comment left on: 2/3/10 10:32 PM
Happy Birthday to NPOYD! <3<3<3
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