me: 21 year old architecture student at cornell. computer geek. music lover. ex-frat boy. wannabe polyglot. irreverent. delights in the absurd. open-minded, easygoing. would rather get wasted with 10 friends than 200.
ways to my heart:
argue with me, intelligently
be frank and honest
know yourself really really well
introduce me to new music that I like
flatter me (but don't go overboard!)
impress me with your intellect/taste/creativity
take me to dinner at a good restaurant
speak french or italian better than me (not hard)
introduce me to new music that I love (hard)
ways to turn me off, immediately:
treat me like I'm stupid
belittle yourself
lie to me
take dlist too seriously
let me do all the work in making conversation
ask to see my "backroom" - I don't have one.
what dlist means to me:
I spend too much time here... who doesn't love ego-rubbing and eye candy? That said, I still find the whole thing kind of gross, and feel an appropriate degree of self-loathing every time I log on. Don't read too much in to my friend count - I've been a member here for a good while and I don't really care to play the "you're not cute enough to be my friend" game, so I just accept everybody.
what I'm looking for:
who knows. I don't "look" for a relationship because in my experience they just kind of happen. But I'm not closed to the possibility. And fun is fun too; that's why they call it that.